Misogynistic much? |
How good of a person you are to me depends on altruism and kindness, not sexual behavior.There are bad people in the world who are virgins. There are awesome people who have fucked thousands. How you choose to express yourself sexually *probably* has nothing to do with how good of a person you are (non-consensual acts excluded, of course.)
BUT, I have to say that the opinion expressed by the OKCupid member above probably makes me even more angry. Essentially, it's the traditional view that men who are very experienced sexually are studs whereas women who are are very experienced are gutter trash whores.
Holy fuck does this type of misogynistic bullshit piss me off. I can't even formulate a coherent argument except for this thought: I hope every lock this asshat's key encounters stays locked the hell up tight.
I used to be on that site. I left it because I didn't like how it was set up...seemed kind of gay. Im now on Plenty of Fish.
ReplyDeleteI found POF to be even worse, at least in my area. It doesn't have match questions like OKC but the quality of the guys in my area was even lower than OKC and trust me, that's scraping the bottom of the barrel!
DeleteI have given up on all dating sites...I would rather die alone than subject myself to anymore online douchecanoes
ReplyDeleteAnd agreed...this double standard that a guy sleeps with 100 women is a stud/a woman that sleeps with 100 men is a slut is ridiculous and annoying as hell
Honestly I think what is driving it these days is that men are too afraid that experienced women will find their sexual skills sorely lacking.
Deleteif that's the case then they need to suck it up and focus on improving. I know a wonderful little blog post about doing just that ;)
DeleteI'm sure you do, Brian ;)
DeleteI personally like to reply with "A sharpener that sharpens many pencils is a good sharpener, but a pencil that's been sharpened too many times is useless" :) It tends to shut them up. \
ReplyDelete-cute_n_nerdy (i.e., kelsey)
LMAO!!!!
DeleteI wish I had thought of that!